Who doesn't have a crack?

I had dinner with a friend the other night. Frustrated at my love life and how I date the wrong guys and been on one too many boring dates. Dates that consist of hanging out at their place, dinner at a chain restaurant or drinks somewhere. Where did we get so boring in our dates? The suns game first date was cool, but a little hard to talk. The brewery wasn't too bad, it was fun but nothing serious. Mini golf wasn't too bad either - at least it was creative than what I've had in the past - although still boring, still so normal.

I have told so many people my life, what I do, how I do it and whatever 20 questions they ask. I tell them about what I am looking for, why I'm single and any other things. I talk a lot about business, the entrepreneur's I date we could spend hours just talking business and overlooking learning about each other.

I actually had a refreshing "date" tonight, one with an entrepreneur like myself - we began getting on our high horses about business and then quickly caught ourselves laughing at how boring we were. We talked about other things the remainder of the time. The new thing about this "date" is the fact we did it online via voice and camera chat. It was great. We decided that in our busy schedules we were tired of going on dates and losing an hour if it wasn't going to work out.

So we passed our first test of each other and are now meeting in person. We are actually going to take a walk in the park, how un-ordinary. I love it.

So back to the dinner with my friend. He told me that I needed to take a break, "find myself," stop attracting jerks, dating liars, and take a month off. I considered it, then I read an article from a woman wo spent 6 months and dated 100 guys before she found her one. That is why we are all here, to find the one that makes our world move and our hearts skip a beat. She re-inspired me. She didn't give up after a few bad experiences, and what she found was as she dated more and got more courage to tell men when she wasn't interested. And in the midst of finding the one - she found herself.

So, I'm not going to take time off. I'm a good and I am ready to find the one and in turn find myself. Love is the best and strongest thing that you can have in your life - so get out there and find it - and find yourself.

Much love and happiness,
The L Grl

"Love is the Greatest Refreshment in Life" - Picasso